Relationships between people are part of our daily life, but there is a relationship that is special, the love relationship. This gives us great joys or large sorrows and disappointments. Some relationships just come to an end, just like that, but we should not feel guilty or sad when this happens.
We must take what we lived in that time with respect, as a phase of our life that already passed. They are just sweet or bitter memories that are part of our past now. From now on, it is important to enjoy life and start over. But, how to prepare and have an open heart for a new love when it shows up?
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The first step to move forward is to forget the past. Put an end to everything related to your previous relationship. Throw away letters, memories and photos which can make you feel sad or make you suffer. Even, if necessary, change your social life and even stop seeing friends in common until you feel better. As the saying goes: "What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't feel".
Do not believe that people are all equal. Each person is different and has its own personality. Each person has unique desires, qualities and defects. Do not label or judge someone only by what you see from above or by what others are saying. To give yourself an opportunity with someone else, it is necessary to share and talk often to get to know each other better.
Talk about interesting topics. Take new courses, work, read good books, catch up on important local and international news. Try to be interesting. Who will want to be next to someone who does nothing or do not have something to talk about?